• Divorce Coaching & More

    Welcome to Perfect Decree.

    As a divorce & coparent coach, my goal is to help you save thousands and thousands of dollars on legal fees, mediation fees, and counseling fees. First, we discuss your unique situation. Then, we work together addressing the most complicated issues you're facing. We create drafts for the perfect divorce decree*, a working custody schedule and parenting plan. I walk you through the process as your guide and coach. Divorce is overwhelming taxing. Let me help you through the process.

  • Coaching Programs

    Learn more about my coaching programs

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    The Grey Rock Method

    A "How To" Coaching program!


    When you're dealing with a high-conflict ex, it is imperative that you learn to use our Grey Rock Method in your communications with them. (8 Sessions)


    In this program you'll learn:  

    • Why our exclusive Grey Rock Method is the only viable form of communication with a high-conflict (narcissistic) ex
    • Our method is not the same gray rock you can look up on Google
    • You should avoid BIFF and yellow rock with a narcissist
    • Responses and ways to respond that you can employ to diffuse the attacks and abuse
    • Which forms of communication work (and which ones to avoid)
    • How to read and respond to messages without getting emotionally triggered into arguments
    • Why you NEVER want to defend yourself or explain yourself to a narcissist
    • Why you delay messages and how to effectively employ messaging intervals
    • The predictable yet unpredictable narcissistic communication patterns


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    Divorce Coaching

    Navigate the divorce landscape!


    Divorce and post-divorce coaching helps you navigate the numerous hurdles you'll face along the way. (8 Sessions)


    My divorce coaching will help you:

    • Work through complex divorce issues
    • Cope with a narcissistic ex
    • Learn about legal custody, physical custody and what to expect
    • Discuss strategies to get you the best possible outcome from your divorce
    • Save thousands on legal fees!
    • Learn to guide your children through their individual process
    • Foresee loopholes and potential scenarios that can sneak up and derail you
    • Deal with challenges of stigmas and stereotypes
    • Create an environment that is best for your children

    I have "reverse engineered" the divorce process. My coaching centers on what is best for the children and you.


    As a divorced parent myself, I will help you see the big picture.


    As a coach my job is to give you the practical advice that will help you and your children.

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    CoParent Coaching

    Communicate Better


    One of the most challenging parts of divorce is learning to coparent effectively.


    If both parents are willing, coparent coaching can help you to navigate the challenges facing you and the children as you move forward.


    My coaching sessions help both of you:

    • Learn communication skills
    • Find solutions for issues without creating chaos and drama.
    • Gain insight into guiding your children to healthy adulthood
    • Set up effective and safe boundaries for each other

    I can also assist willing parents with the following:

    • Setting up and maintaining an effective parenting, vacation and holiday calendar
    • Drafting stipulations that should be included in all divorce decrees

    If your divorce is high conflict or you're dealing with a narcissist, then coparent coaching will not work for you. It would be much better for me to coach you individually.



  • Other Services

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    Calendar Entry/Maintenance

    Manage your custody calendar!


    I create and maintain a parenting, holiday and event calendar for splitting custody time with your ex.


    Calendars can be confusing and the parenting apps can be a bit daunting. I cut through the confusion and create a calendar that runs until your youngest ages out of the judge's orders or decree. (emancipation and/or matriculation)


    I also coach you through some of the most common questions regarding custody & visitation:

    • How do holidays work?
    • What about makeup days?
    • What if we trade days?
    • What happens if his vacations falls on her parenting time?
    • How do vacations work?

    I can use any of the major parenting apps like Our Family Wizard, Talking Parents, or Custody XChange.


    I can also work with your Google calendar. All calendars are based off of the judges orders and divorce decree. (temporary orders work too)


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    Decree Review

    Search for loopholes in your decree!


    I am not an attorney. However, I have read hundreds of decrees from almost every state in the US.


    While reading decrees, I have discovered HUGE deficiencies in most divorce decrees. It's alarming given the amount of money spent on attorneys.


    Many decrees don't have basic stipulations (decisions and agreements) that should be included in all orders. Others have what I call "nightmare" clauses that leave open holes that are often exploited by a high-conflict ex spouse. (Narcissists)


    If you're separated, this is a must have service!


    In my review process I will:

    • Thoroughly read your decree/orders to understand what is in place
    • Find the holes, problems and missing stipulations
    • Make suggestions on what you can have your attorney add or edit.
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    The Perfect Decree


    The Perfect Decree is a comprehensive coaching service where I go through each and every stipulation with you on what will become your divorce orders.


    I will create a draft document that you will take to your attorney for editing and state-specific clauses.


    The Perfect Decree will save you thousands and thousands of dollars as most attorneys will charge $300+ per hour.


    Take the draft document to your mediator, ex spouse and attorney. You will be way more prepared throughout the divorce process with this document in hand from the beginning.


    I have reverse engineered the divorce process. Divorce should START with the draft decree which saves a lot of money and headaches as your divorce proceeds.

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    Divorce Coaching

    & Services

    With my divorce coaching programs and services, you will get to the other side of your divorce without going broke in the process. Divorces are expensive with the average costing more than $50,000. More often than not, the divorce isn't really over.


    As one of the founding partners of Grey Rock Communications, I've read a LOT of divorce decrees. Often, they are poorly written or the leave gaping holes that don't cover everything that needs to be decided. Divorces can cost $50,000+ on average and though people spend a fortune, they rarely come out of the process with a thorough, working divorce decree. Often, just the opposite.


    One of our clients was already $250k into attorney fees when they found us. I asked her if she had a draft decree and she does not. A quarter of a million dollars and no draft? Attorneys don't have much reason to help you end the battle because their fees are hourly. They have a HUGE finantical incentive to keep you in litigation as long as possible...even if they represent you.

  • Initial Consultation

    Sometimes it's hard to know where to start.


    Let's set up a time to talk on the phone. We can find your needs and talk more about your specific situation. At the end of our conversation, I will invite you to the coaching programs that are right for you.

  • FAQs

    Questions you may have


    “ If it weren't for Perfect Decree's help, I would have agreed to the proposed parenting plan and realized later that there were huge problems, missing stipulations and conflicts. After staring at the raw data for days, Will came to the rescue and, within a couple of sessions, provided me with a clear and precise schedule and parenting plan. Parents and attorneys dealing with visitation problems absolutely need to have Will help them draft a working decree. ”


    - Dr. Dan Connors, Fargo, ND -



    "Will created a custom plan to perfectly match your specific schedule, including holidays and vacations. Not only that, he broke down the time allocation and charted every single day for custody. It was an immense help to me, especially since I represented myself while going against a family law specialist. The judge actually accepted the plan Will developed. I can't thank you enough!"


    - Sarah S., Modesto, CA -


    "I didn't even need to present the schedule myself; the mediator took care of it with some guidance from me. This created the impression that the mediator had put the parenting plan together, which helped sell the schedule I desired. After receiving a preliminary version from the mediator, I incorporated certain provisions from the the draft Will built for me. We put several stipulations into our final agreement."


    - Justin, CA -


    "My lawyer was genuinely impressed with the plan and acknowledged that it surpassed mere acceptability; it was presented in an exceptional format. Your dedication and effort in crafting this plan specifically for me are greatly appreciated. I cannot thank you enough for taking the time and putting in the necessary work to develop such a comprehensive and well-structured proposal. Your expertise and attention to detail have undoubtedly made a significant impact on my case."


    - Meredith -